"Right or Wrong". Who decides?

From as long as we remember ourselves we are told to do or not to do "that or this" because it was right or wrong. Do you still think that there are right or wrong? I guess it depends how you think. You watch movie where a chased convicted murder is almost dying in the hands of policeman. What should policeman do? To save the murder will be the "right or wrong" thing to do? Who decides? In this case - policeman. If it was a murder's pant or loving partner they would save him/her that is right thing for them. What if there was a parent or loving partner of murdered person? The story would show no mercy to murderer from the other side.

Wise people can see or at least try to see the whole picture first and then make a conclusion. You may say it is a rational decision but if you take such a strong approach to decide what is "right or wrong" for others, shouldn't you take responsibility to find out why and what motivated that person to act thataway. Every psychologist knows that no matter what you do it is right because it is you who did it. And when another person tells you are wrong. Isnt it upsetting?

May be it is because of you find things are going wrong , the way you see them. But what if you have to stop then look around and start over - start with yourself. Don't think every-body's wrong but you. Everything is relevant in life to places, time, circumstances and events. When your employer laying laying off hundreds of people, isn't it a time to improve and sharpen your own skills to try new job? If you were in his/her shoes with no business because of competition or high tax, wouldn't you do the same? Right or wrong? Who decides? The problem is so big of current unemployment that the movie with George Clooney was made last year - "Up In The Air".

 It is a delicate topic but always will be torn between "right or wrong" on either side. You love your children and you only wish them best but they don't think so. What if you play a game "13 Going On 30"  with your kids at least once a week. You remember the movie, don'tyou? The basics of games for parents to act like children and vice versa children to act like parents. How much better understanding we can get just by being in each other's places (shoes).

Dangerous species like sharks exist in the nature. Don't you think nature eliminates them if it was right think to do from its point of view? As the matter of fact, the very educated friend of mine knows how to apply sharks' bones to help improve people's health and probably many doctors already use them. It is right thing to save sharks then, isn't it?

The list can go on and on. I'd highly appreciate your comment or your opinion of life experience on "right or wrong" situations depending on which side of the road you are and how you handle them. Would you agree that everybody has a chance not to be judge before analysing the whole picture?